This blog is my first desperate public attempt to deal with an issue that I have dealt with personally all of my life, and that I see people suffering from all around me, all the time. The problem is the status quo that exists between the opposite sexes that allows abuse, neglect, infidelity and the general malaise caused by all of us accepting things the way they are. It is time for us to evolve and change. It is time for us to grow into a new paradigm. Men CAN clean houses and be faithful and nurture children. Women CAN repair their own vehicles and defend themselves and be good and non-competitive with other women. NO MORE EXCUSES! NO MORE ENABLING! NO MORE HURTING EACH OTHER JUST BECAUSE THAT'S THE WAY IT HAS ALWAYS BEEN! NO MORE!!!
The mind is a tool that we can use as we choose. We are not slaves to biology. We do not even respect biology, and yet we are willing to use it as an excuse for our horrible mistreatment of each other at the drop of a hat. NO MORE!
I have been fighting this tooth and nail all my life, and I am tired of fighting alone. I know I can't be the only one who feels this way. I am hoping that this site will inspire others to speak out and stand up and encourage people to facilitate this evolution.
People are not dumpsters. People have choices. We need to learn to love ourselves and love each other and change the status quo to something we can all be proud of.
Please join me, and fight the good fight.
-JDA
